Misc tips on Dressing :

• Get women to help you. You wouldn't believe how many girls are willing to jump and assist you with your
clothing. It may be a little invasive, but it helps.
• Exercise actually does help your clothing. T-shirts on people with a de ned chest look better than someone
who has a washboard chest. Having a little muscle makes things better.
• Re-wear jeans and some pants, never shirts. This really depends on how you sweat, but jeans and other
"heavy" material pants can be re-worn safely. Just change your shirt - trust me, it will smell no matter what.
Plus, you don't want to wear the same exact thing two times in a row.
• If at all possible, wash clothing before you wear it the fi rst time. It gets the "store smell" out of it, as well as
makes it softer.
• Wear clear deodorant. Especially with black clothing, white marks can show up. The same thing goes with
dandru ff - get it fi xed. Especially with dark clothing, such things can be noticed.
• If it has an unsightly stain, get rid of it. Jeans do not apply here but for white shirts or anything formal, just
accept that it died. You don't want to look like a greasy trucker.
• Try to avoid shopping online. You can't see the clothes in actuality, you may end up getting something that
doesn't t you, or simply looks dumb on you.

Ways to Turn one Suit into a Whole Week of Wear :

Did u know that in how many ways u can wear a SUIT ,
Here are some of them :

• Wear it without a tie. Collar open, suit either closed or open. This gives the allusion of relaxedness- ties are
the ultimate in style to some people.
• Wear the suit jacket with jeans. This is a kickass way to go on a date.
• Go without the suit jacket, wear the pants and the shirt. I personally detest this look because it tends to
show too much fat on ugly guys, but skinny guys can pull it on .
• Use a vest with the pants. A black vest goes well with just the pants and gives a more European allure.
• Use the vest with the suit for a makeshift three piece suit. This actually is your most dignified kept look, but
it also tends to be a bit formal.
• Wear different ties or colored shirts. A black suit can have       tons of combinations.
• Don't tuck your shirt in. While this only works in casual situations, it tends to be an interesting concept- but
it is VERY VERY hard to pull off .

Suits : How to wear

Unless you intend to work as a petrol pump station assistant the rest of your life, times will come when you will need to wear a suit.


Rules of Suits :

A suit, much like a shirt, has about three billion ways in which you can wear it and look stupid, and about 100 ways in which you can actually look decent. This limits your options to either following set trends and ideas and looking good, or looking like a complete dumb shit and making everyone in
your o ce/party/whatever laugh at you. So, with that in mind, follow these tips for safety :


• Stay conservative and classic. Obviously this means that you should stick to the basics of clothing. Wearing
anything completely out of fashion or odd will immediately brand you as an idiot, so this is your basic method
of "looking good". Find a black suit that ts you and accentuates your body, and you will be pretty much
set in this realm- straying from it will be at your discretion, but the plain black suit is an absolute necessity.
• Three or two buttons is optimal. Three is only good if you are tall or thin, two is best if you're a bit round.
Ask someone in a Men's Suit Department for help on this one.
• The length of the jacket should be normal - too long makes it look like a leisure suit, too short is very strange.
If you need a good measurement, go grab a standard Male's sized tie and put it up against the lapels- they
should be around the same length.
• The typical suit coat has a vent in the back (about a 10 inch long cut in the middle) that allows for your
back, among other things. Some di erent suits do not feature this. Make sure to check and test which you
prefer more - vents sometimes allow the suit to pu up, but an uncut jacket can be uncomfortable to some
body types.
• Some black suits tend to feature odd fabrics, such as heavier weaves. Avoid this, as they are not only misplaced in many ensembles, but they also are a pain in the ass to keep clean and dry-clean them.
• A lot of a suit is the ability to accentuate the upper body and slim the lower. DO NOT SIMPLY BUY
A SUIT OFF THE RACK. Think and BUY.
• There is a debate going on about if men should wear belts with suits. In general, the historical thing has been to wear belts, thus it is generally good for you to do so. Much like leisure suits, fads like these tend to die out.
• Suits can be produced in two ways - being sewn, and being glued. Ask - glued suits (glue being used to
hold fabric together) are HORRIBLE, and fall apart easily. Ignore what the man at the counter says about
"advanced new technologies" - glue in a suit is as natural as your penis in your asshole. Don't do it.
And while you're at it, check the lengths of all of these key things:
• The length of the sleeve when you hold out and bend your arm (as if holding it out to a lady). It should be
long enough to cover your wrist, but possibly expose a bit of watch or something- nothing more.
• The length of the actual coat itself. It should come down to about your hips.
• The drape of the fabric in the back. There should actually BE no drape. If you see any wrinkles in the back,
there is a problem.
• The fabric under your arms. This, much like your back, should never have wrinkles that come from being
stretched or pulled.

Wearing Clothing

There are few ways you can fuck up wearing clothing, but no doubt you need to learn them. Some rules (such as "White after Labor Day") do not really apply anymore, while some (No white socks with brown shoes) continue to live to this day. 

With that being said, these are just the general rules you need to know when picking out "what to wear":


• As mentioned above, No white socks with brown shoes. Just trust me on this one.
• Unless you are wearing formal or semiformal wear, do not tuck your shirt in ever.
• Do not wear your sweater around your hips, you will look gay.
• Do not wear a shirt and pants that match.
• Never wear a cell phone on your belt. That is geeky and stupid.
• Unless you're trying to scare o potential dates, do not wear a ring on the third (ring) nger on your left
hand. That's where marriage rings go.
• Unless you are on the beach or in a very relaxed setting, do not wear sandals.
• Keep leather shoes clean. Brown leather shoes are awesome and can be used for a ton of things, but they get dirty easily.
• This is obvious: No pocket protectors, suspenders, or basically anything stereotypically geeky.
• This is less obvious: Try to wear something other than a t-shirt and a pair of pants.
• I will personally kill you if you wear your baseball hat backwards.
• On the topic of hats, hats are to be worn sparingly, otherwise you'll look like a trucker.
• Belts should never be tighter than the pants you have on. Buy tight pants.
• Do not ever wear a Hawaiian shirt and a undershirt/tank top. You will look like an idiot.
• Sweatpants and sleepwear are only for exercise and sleeping, respectively. Girls and guys who think otherwise are ignorant.
• Wear what you're doing. If you're going on a date, dress semi-formal yet relaxed. If you're going to a concert, band t-shirts are acceptable (However, do not be the tool that shows up to a concert wearing a shirt for the band playing, that is fucking lame).
Just scale up or down depending on what you plan to do that day.

Shopping For Clothing

Shopping for clothing is like shopping for Video Games - you need to know what you're looking for beforehand and
stick to your guns. When you walk into a store, you should be able to at least have a few things in mind - what
style you're looking for, what you're speci cally looking to buy, and how much you're willing to pay for it. See, as
good old Anonymous (and presumably male), you can't allow yourself to buy something and then only later realize
you fucked up. Failure sucks.
So, with that in mind, get an idea of the stores that are available to you.

NOW,
Super Cool Trick # 1 :

At this point, you probably want an easy way to get clothing without having to deal with all of this di erent clothing
bullshit. There is an easy way to do this - rely on chicks. Yes, actually, women tend to be the best people to defer to on these subjects, because they generally will be able to Sure of what makes you better looking. If you have a girlfriend (or a girl who is just a friend), you can de finitely ask them. But hey, you probably don't.
That is where you get up your balls and show o some testosterone. Wear decent clothing that makes you look pretty reasonable. Walk into a store with a female employee, and directly say to her "What could I wear that would make you want to date me?". 
Unless she's busy or a bitch, you will probably get a good answer Or a phone
number, which is even better..!!

Dressing : Basics

Clothing is an essential part of life, mainly because the only time you seem to be allowed to not wear it is if you
are a nudist, having sex, or in the shower. That's why most countries place a big emphasis on style and fashion -
being able to take cloth that everyone wears and look good doing it.
Even though it makes little sense to some, wearing the right clothes with the right names can make all the
difference in the world.
Look at movie stars; some are insanely ugly, but with a little Grooming and some style, they look there best.

Here are some basics about dressing :

• Underwear - anything but NOT tighty whities and "joke" boxers.
• Pants - Jeans, Khakis, Shorts, and Dress pants.
• Shirts - Undershirts, plain T-shirts, styled T-shirts, long sleeved shirts, tank tops.
• "Overshirts" - Button down shirts, cheap suit jackets, etc.
• Accessories - At least one belt, possibly a necklace or a ring of some kind, a watch, scarf, etc.

• A Suit - a decent black or gray suit with normal conservative accessories- including a matching tie.
• Outerwear - One jacket (leather is good), one coat.

How should u deal with Loneliness

First, ask yourself why you are lonely.
Loneliness often comes from a feeling that no one understands you or  
that you are somehow separate from everyone else.

Second, learn how you cope with loneliness. When a negative feeling  
like loneliness grates against us for long enough, we tend to numb it  
out. There are many ways that a person might numb something out. For  
some it is through addictions to drugs, alcohol, or other behaviors  
(sex, video games, TV, etc.).
  Others fall into a depression or otherwise shut down. By limiting  
their openness to life they may be unconsciously trying to limit their  
openness to feelings of loneliness.
For me, I distracted myself by keeping busy with exercise, reading,  
work, and other activities. Probably the only thing that actually  
served as an emotional release valve was the act of writing a diary.

Third, let go of the mindset that is creating loneliness. Do you  
believe that no one wants to welcome you into their life?
If so, then you will be much less likely to reach out to others. Do  
you believe that you aren’t interesting enough, outgoing enough,  
attractive enough? These beliefs too will only increase feelings of  
separation from others.
It is easy to see the differences between others and ourselves. But it  
is through seeing differences that loneliness is born. Try to instead,  
see similarities. Similarities create connection. I from a lot of  
personal experience know that people have a lot more in common than not.

Fourth, take action to pull yourself out of loneliness. When we feel  
lonely, it is natural to believe that there is a hole inside of us  
that needs to be filled. We want to receive something to fill us up  
and remove the feeling of isolation.

BUT that isn’t how the world works.
Love is an energy that only flows in one direction and that’s outward.
Love, belonging, connection… whatever you want to call it… it  
isn’t something you can grasp for and pull into yourself from other  
people.
Love is a gift that you give to others. When you pass a stranger on  
the street and greet them with a warm smile and a “good morning,”  
you are letting that energy flow out of you and connecting with  
another person. That instantly makes you feel better, even if it’s  
just a little bit, doesn’t it?
That is a small example, but the point is that love isn’t something  
you take from others, So do something whether it’s calling up a  
friend or striking up a conversation with a stranger.
Not all of efforts will be met positively, and that’s okay. That’s  
not our fault. Not everyone is open to accept love right now (which is  
why one thing I saw often is that a lot of us have a problem welcoming  
love into our lives). However, that is not an excuse for inaction or  
passivity.

Logics of Life

1.Make peace with ur past so it doesn't spoil ur present

2.What others think of u is none of ur business.

3.Time heals almost everything, give d time,some time.

4. No 1 is a reason of ur happiness except urself.

5.Don't compare ur life with other's u have no idea what their journey  
is all about.

6. Stop thinking too much, it's alright not 2 know all d answers.

7.Smile ! Life is short.

Why I Deactivated My Facebook

Many ppl ask me the reason dat y i deactivated my fb account :

here are SOME of the reasons :

1) i dont lyk the idea of a copy of me to be on internet.

2) i dont want to spend any more tym on that site.

3) i dont lyk the idea of sharing so much personel information on fb.

4) i actually dont know most of the ppl who are friends wid me dere.

5) its just a virtual world which slowly starts to eat up ur real lyf...

6) most of the ppl who spend too much tym on fb are real lyf  

loosers..they dnt hAv any one to talk to in real lyf so dey spend too  

much tym on net..

7) u cn nvr ever enhance ur personality by sitting in front of ur  

lappy or computer... u need to go out of ur home to live a lyf..

8) it is time sucking

9) it is an addiction

10) i hav seen dese chatboxes getting filled up and filled out  

(emptying), and it was such a waste of tym... now after leaving fb i  

can save too much tym for myself and my work..

Style Ideas

The Internet is a great source for style ideas because you can get away with looking fucking everywhere for ideas and not spend too much time doing it. A great place to look for style ideas is, ironically, television channel,websites.

There are a few key questions you need to keep in mind as you browse. Those are:

• "Will I look good like this?"

• "Does this clothing look like it will be stylish for a long time?"

• "Will this attract the kind of girl I would be interested in?"

and of course,

• "Can I afford this kind of style without taking a third mortgage out on my house?" (lol)